Getting back in the game.

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One of the many reasons I decided to start a blog was because I stepped into the completely unknown world of Internet dating in March and there is just way too much material out there to keep to myself!!!

I dutifully signed up to match.com after a weekend away with my best friend and a fair amount of peer pressure. I was definitely ready to start meeting new people but it was just so alien to me! So after writing and re-writing my profile and having it proof read by a small group of trusted friends, I paid my membership fee and joined the game…and do you know what it’s actually quite fun! It took a while for me to get used to the whole ‘winking’ thing (I am still yet to wink at anyone!) and the excitement of seeing someone looking at your profile and the disappointment when you don’t get a wink or email, but at the very least I have managed to have some intelligent, interesting, adult conversations with the opposite sex which, to be completely honest, has not happened for a very long time. Even whilst still in my marriage. You quickly get used to laughing at the ‘your boobs looks great’ emails and if nothing else, it’s a boost to the self esteem which can never hurt ๐Ÿ˜‰

Still no long term loves have appeared – I’m not sure I’m actually ready for that bit yet, but so far I’ve been on dates with a Spanish doctor (sexy and talkative and a gentleman – a good one to start with), a political advisor (older and desperate to settle down), a short guy (with definite short man syndrome – hot though!) a tall guy (lots in common but just no spark), a car salesman (who talked a good talk, as you can imagine) and many long conversations via email that never ended up turning into a date. But I guess this is what ‘me time’ is all about, trying to find out what works for me and who I am again, after 10 years of being someone’s girlfriend, fiancรฉ and wife. It’s actually been quite a fun journey so far…

As for tinder…well that deserves a post ALL of its own!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

  1. singlemum3

    June 23, 2014 at 12:52 pm

    Good luck!! i have been looking tentatively at internet dating…… but it just seems so funny, everyone talking themselves up. gosh, I’m not ready at all, i think! tell me more about how the actual dates went- was it awkward?? argh!

    1. theperfectjuggler

      June 23, 2014 at 7:47 pm

      I would recommend it, I found it a good way to dip my toe in the water but could sign off if it all got a bit scary!! I signed in and set up my profile and by the next day I had a couple of views and winks so its also nice to give you a bit of a boost to the confidence! (Don’t think I responded to any of them as was too scared at the time though!) I will definitely post more about the dates…not all horror stories promise! Thanks for reading ๐Ÿ™‚

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